
Today I turned 23 in New Zealand…and tomorrow I turn 23 in Canada. Thanks to the efforts of staff, students, family, and friends, I felt surrounded by warm birthday wishes as I celebrated overseas. My students sang for me, and Anna brought delicious treats to the English department for all to enjoy. The “icing” on the cake was the delightful news that the year 9 form class that Anna and I share was recognized as an outstanding bunch of girls for their organization, effort, enthusiasm, and all-round positive attitudes and achievements. They’re having a movie afternoon with “nibbles,” goodies, and John Tucker.
In the early days of my twenty-third year I am reflecting on the things I’ve done to make it this far. I’ve only had twenty-three years…not much in the grand scheme of things -- I can’t imagine all that I’ll know by the time I’m 50!
When my brother was young he asked my mom what the dinosaurs were like. I still remember her reaction…partly adoration of her young son who couldn’t differentiate between Jurassic and present day, and partly hypersensitive to the number of wrinkles setting in on her skin. You see, the older people get the more reluctant they seem to reveal their age. They hide their embarrassment behind excuses like, “Oh, I’ve just dated myself,” or grunt their age under a muffled cough.
I’ve always taken umbrage with reactions such as these, mainly because age is something that we ought to be proud of. When we are young children we dream of being adults; when we are adults we yearn for the carefree state of youth; and when we reach the age of 65 and are eligible for the senior menu options or reduced rates at Norwich Union, it all of a sudden becomes cool to be old again. Funny how things come full-circle.
If we’re going to be ashamed of anything it ought to be our moral mistakes, not our position on the hill of life. We earn our wrinkles and gray hair, and just because I don’t have any yet I look forward to earning them as proof of a life lived. (That said, I’m not about to ditch my eye cream or collagen moisturizer!).
I am a young person and a young teacher. I’ve got a lot to learn and wrinkles and gray hairs to earn along the way. At the moment I am in New Zealand, teaching and learning from the people and the open road, actively adding to my repertoire of life experiences that will undoubtedly inform my teaching life for the rest of my career.
Thanks for reading,
L.

















